Labor Day.
The hard-working, underpaid American worker in you looks forward to a day of rest, camping, and/or BBQ. Thus, in celebration of this American holiday I offer a gentle reminder about labor pains and why we are willing to risk working long hours to do what we must on the job: every struggle or challenge is meant to build you and me.
Here is the inaugural blog from my cinematherapy site which was written to give a reminder about pain, purpose, and following your inner voice. The blog site itself was created 5 years ago following an incident in which I felt labor pains of purpose like no other after the loss of my first husband. It continues to hold true today as I have elevated levels in my professional development in the past year since writing blogs on this site...and have learned a thing or two about managing people and systems.
In summary the Europeans are doing something right with the 4 day work week. Surely we deserve a day of rest.
In summary the Europeans are doing something right with the 4 day work week. Surely we deserve a day of rest.
The Movie
Whale Rider is the coming-of-age story of Paikea (Keisha Castle-Hughes), an adolescent girl from the Maori (New Zealand) tribe who, after losing her twin brother and mother during childbirth, becomes the heir to her family. Paikea’s grandfather, Koro (Rawiri Paratene), the village elder, is bitter that his son left New Zealand after the death of Paikea’s mother and is reluctant to teach Paikea the Maori customs simply because she is female. To channel this frustration, Koro starts a school for boys and refuses Paikea’s every advance to attend the rituals taught there. Undeterred by her grandfather’s refusal and meanness, Paikea relies on her instincts and challenges conventional Maori wisdom. What follows are dramatic scenes in which she upstages the village boys in various tasks and eventually fulfills a prophecy within her community. In the end, Koro is forced to accept Paikea’s birthright, make peace with his family and his ancestors.
The Message
Simply put, this movie is awesome and it pulls the viewer in at every scene with messages about purpose and destiny. There are several messages in the film. The first and most obvious is that Paikea refuses to let her gender keep her from doing the impossible. At several points in the film Koro acknowledges, albeit within himself, that Paikea is the chosen one who is to fulfill the village prophecy and restore peace to the community. However, he allows past anger to cloud his judgment. The second and most powerful theme is that Paikea embraces her birthright and follows her intuition despite being laughed at and otherwise ridiculed by her community. She is unapologetic for defying her grandfather’s commands, listens to her “inner voice”, and relies on her intuition to be her guide.
Your Wellness
Can you think of a time when you felt like you were meant to do something but it seemed impossible? Maybe someone told you that you couldn’t learn a particular trade, go to certain school, or closed doors in your face because your money was funny. Maybe you listened to that person or even tried your best and things still did not work out for you. If you are so confident in your convictions that you can actually see yourself doing whatever it is that you want then you have to buckle down and develop your inner strength. Like Paikea, you’ve got to listen to your “inner voice” and be confident in your abilities. Believe it or not, there is actually scientific evidence in “faking it until you make it.” Trust me, confidence goes a long way.
